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Ready to stop avoiding your money?
You might look financially successful on the outside, but inside you feel anxious about money, unsure of what’s “enough,” or exhausted from trying to get it right.
Even with wealth on paper, your nervous system can still feel scarcity. You’re not the only one, and you’re in the right place.
Hi, I’m Erin, Spiritual Wealth Coach, former Certified Financial Planner, and CFO.
I created this podcast to help you build true financial confidence, not just more financial knowledge.
For years, I chased numbers in the bank account, outsourced decisions to financial advisors, and still felt guilt, pressure, and never “enoughness.” I didn’t realize I was stuck in a scarcity mindset.
What changed everything was realizing that money isn’t just about strategy, it’s about relationship. To feel safe and empowered with money, I needed nervous system regulation, emotional safety, and an abundance mindset.
On this podcast, we go beyond budgeting and financial planning.
We talk about money mindset, wealth embodiment, nervous system safety, and creating money systems that feel good to use, so you can stop spiraling in shame, ground into your worth, and experience real financial freedom.
If you’re ready to trust yourself with money and create wealth on your terms, this podcast is for you.
I’m so glad you’re here.
Let’s dive in.
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Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Too often, we chase numbers (our income, investments, net worth, our business revenue) thinking they will finally make us feel secure, capable, or “enough.” In this episode, I discuss how to redefine success beyond income and status, integrating health, relationships, play, and a calm nervous system. We explore how money can act as a security blanket, keeping us from the inner work that creates real safety. In this epi...
Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) When we talk about wealth, the conversation often centers on external investments. I believe the most important investment is the one no market can measure. In this episode, I share my belief on the #1 investment we can ever make, it's within ourselves. In this episode, we discuss: • Investing in inner assets first over external instruments • How self-concept shapes your financial choices • Com...
Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Why do some people attract success with ease while others struggle despite working twice as hard? The difference often comes down to one of the most powerful universal principles, the Law of Perpetual Transmutation of Energy. This law teaches us that energy never disappears; it only changes form. Your thoughts and feelings are constantly being transmuted into your physical reality. When you learn to harness this, succe...
Work With Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Your body can’t believe what your nervous system won’t allow and that’s why tapping can change everything. In this episode, we explore Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) as a practical way to calm money anxiety, loosen the grip of rumination, and give your inner voice permission to finally speak the truth you’ve been avoiding. By the end of this episode, you’ll have an understanding and a framework for when to tap, what to sa...
Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Your relationship with money says a lot about your relationship with yourself. In this episode, I’m sharing 6 powerful shifts and practices that you can use to create lasting financial peace and abundance. What you’ll learn in this episode: How the words and stories you use about money shape your realityWhy clarity on what you don’t want is just as valuable as knowing what you doThe importance of giving yourself permission...
Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Have you ever stopped to calculate how much money you’ve manifested in your lifetime? If you had me guess, it’s in the millions. The real question isn’t if you can manifest money, it's whether you’re manifesting from love or fear. In this episode, I dive into the difference between manifesting money from a fear-based place and love-based place. Fear creates pressure, scarcity, and overworking which keeps you in surviva...
Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Have you ever been celebrating, enjoying a beautiful moment or spending money only to have your brain suddenly interrupt with scarcity thoughts like, “You shouldn’t be spending this money,” or “You're having too much fun"? That quick shift from joy to panic isn’t random, I believe it’s your nervous system revealing its limits around how much abundance it feels safe to hold. In this episode, I share the hidden connection betw...
Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Have you ever wondered how the banking system actually works? In this episode, I'm sharing the hidden history of money and how our banking system was deliberately designed to benefit a few at the expense of the many. I debated on creating this episode because I feel like it can feel so heavy AND I wanted to share from the lens of empowerment. The old fear-based systems of scarcity and control are beginning to crumble, and we...
Work with Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) In this episode, I share what it means to move beyond the conventional definition of a “wealth mindset.” Instead of focusing only on strategies or numbers, I explore how your feelings, nervous system, and self-trust are the real foundations of abundance. We’ll also explore why nervous system regulation is essential for wealth creation. When you’re living in fight-or-flight, it makes it more difficult to access intuition or f...
Work With Me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Do you find yourself exhausted from second-guessing every financial decision? That cycle of overthinking doesn’t just drain your energy, I believe it quietly erodes your self-trust and keeps you handing your power over to others. In this episode, I’m sharing how to break that cycle by learning to trust your intuition. Your body carries wisdom that your logical mind can’t access. When you pause and notice how a decision...
Work with me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Have you ever noticed that no matter how much money mindset work you do, things don't feel like they're truly shifting? That’s because financial blocks aren’t always in your mind, they can also be stored in your body. In this episode, I dive into Dr. Bradley Nelson’s book The Emotion Code and explore how unprocessed emotions, especially from childhood, can remain in the body. These stored energies can quietly shape your rela...
Work with me: (https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin) Resistance isn't really about procrastination, "laziness", or self-sabotage, more often than not, it’s your body’s way of protecting you. Whether it shows up as avoiding money tasks, feeling paralyzed by financial decisions, rushing through difficult seasons of life, or numbing out with distractions, resistance carries an important message. In this episode, I dive into how to approach resistance with emotional regulati...
Work with me: https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin In this intimate episode, I share a raw and vulnerable journal entry about a moment where I almost compromised my values for money. I share what it felt like to be pulled by the allure of financial gain while my body was sending very different signals. I also share the process I used to come back to my knowing. Money itself isn’t the enemy, it’s neutral, it just is. And when we let fear or scarcity run the show, it can q...
Work with me: https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin You can have the thriving business, the healthy bank account, and all the financial boxes checked and still feel like it’s never enough. That empty, restless feeling isn’t about money at all. It’s about the words we use to speak to ourselves and about ourselves. Language carries energy. The way we talk about money can either keep us in fear or open us to trust, love, and sufficiency. In this episode, we’ll explore how small sh...
Do you feel guilty when you spend money even when you can afford it? In this episode, I unpack the reasons why we feel money guilt and shame, how your nervous system was conditioned to equate spending with danger, and practical ways to rewire your money mindset. You’ll learn how childhood money conditioning shaped your nervous system, why guilt has become a default response, and practical tools to rewire your relationship with money circulation. What you’ll hear in this episode: Why gui...
Have you ever noticed how your brain latches onto financial worries while completely overlooking the money and abundance already in your life? You’re not imagining it. Your Reticular Activating System (RAS) which is the part of your brain that filters information was designed to scan for threats. Helpful for survival, not so helpful when it comes to money and remembering your abundance. Your brain is incredibly adaptable. With practice, you can retrain it to see and feel the financial flow th...
Why do some mortgage experiences feel seamless while others turn into nightmares? It’s not just about interest rates; it’s about the lender guiding you through the process. In this episode, mortgage expert Jacqueline “Jax” Crider shares what most borrowers overlook: not all lenders are created equal. With 20+ years of experience and a law degree, Jax explains why the right mortgage partner should challenge your assumptions, uncover better options, and help you make decisions from confidence, ...
What if money wasn’t something to chase, control, or fear and instead it is something that could feel like love? In this episode, I unpack the energetic truth that changed everything in my own financial journey and that is: money operates on the frequency of love, not fear. After years of relating to money through scarcity, stress, and performance, I began to explore what it meant to build wealth from emotional safety, self-trust, and alignment. When we relate to money as something outside of...
I'm peeling back the layers in this episode on why I let my CFP go and how I use financial planning with clients now. This episode is for the woman who senses there's more to money than logic and spreadsheets. Who's done the planning, hit the milestones, and still feels disconnected. I invited you on my journey of choosing soul alignment over fear and how letting go of the traditional path allows me to serve clients at a more embodied, intuitive level. In this episode, we'll explore: Why I wa...
In this episode, I challenge the outdated narrative surrounding retirement and the concept of financial freedom. Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “I’ll finally rest when I retire”? I dive into how the traditional retirement model can feel restrictive, especially for women, and how it reinforces a scarcity mindset. Traditional retirement models are built around the assumption that work is something to endure, not something that can nourish your soul. But what if the go...
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